Comments on: anti-valentine posting http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/ A tail of a girl.. Mon, 08 Mar 2010 22:15:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9 hourly 1 By: sourrain http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/comment-page-1/#comment-1082 sourrain Thu, 15 Feb 2007 10:40:13 +0000 http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/#comment-1082 aherm, thank you thank you.with our daily googletalk I sometimes feel I talk to you more than bacon.hahhaha. Best part is, he likes it that he don't need to layan me. yea, sometimes i feel that I'm like still single, which is quite nice lor.most people take relationships very seriously. Esp marriage. Everyone else in the world cease to exist when you have a bf.eeew. attire wise I think most married women don't care anymore what they wear;they've already landed their fish so they can let themselves go.I don't agree with that at all..thus project fatbastard. the thing is, marriage is not meant to be perfect.I think the main reason we got married is because we make each other laugh all the time, and i think it's important.I think that couples that calls singles loser and pathetic are even more pathetic themselves.They just need the illusion of someone 'less fortunate' than themselves to make them feel better about themselves...drowning in nappies and not being able to go out with friends. One thing la, I don't go around brandishing the fact that I am happily married.Heck, if it wasnt for my rings, I think I sometimes forget that I am married.heh. aherm, thank you thank you.with our daily googletalk I sometimes feel I talk to you more than bacon.hahhaha. Best part is, he likes it that he don’t need to layan me.

yea, sometimes i feel that I’m like still single, which is quite nice lor.most people take relationships very seriously. Esp marriage. Everyone else in the world cease to exist when you have a bf.eeew.

attire wise I think most married women don’t care anymore what they wear;they’ve already landed their fish so they can let themselves go.I don’t agree with that at all..thus project fatbastard.

the thing is, marriage is not meant to be perfect.I think the main reason we got married is because we make each other laugh all the time, and i think it’s important.I think that couples that calls singles loser and pathetic are even more pathetic themselves.They just need the illusion of someone ‘less fortunate’ than themselves to make them feel better about themselves…drowning in nappies and not being able to go out with friends.

One thing la, I don’t go around brandishing the fact that I am happily married.Heck, if it wasnt for my rings, I think I sometimes forget that I am married.heh.

]]> By: dreymer http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/comment-page-1/#comment-1081 dreymer Thu, 15 Feb 2007 10:12:19 +0000 http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/#comment-1081 I think you did a really good job juggling both married life/hubby and your friends. The best part is, I don't think I've ever felt neglected (hehe) or that you've changed! Still think you are more single that those single but attached gfs that I have! I know friends that once they've gotten hitched, everything about them is different. From their attire (haha) to the topic of discussion... almost like they have turn to entirely different person! Unbelievable. I agree with Mooiness. I rather be single than to be a relationship that doesn't work. And yes, one day I do want to get married but until then, enjoy singlehood (and whine about previous r/ships hehehe). Not everyone can be as lucky as you to find your perfect one, hor hor hor? I think you did a really good job juggling both married life/hubby and your friends. The best part is, I don’t think I’ve ever felt neglected (hehe) or that you’ve changed! Still think you are more single that those single but attached gfs that I have! I know friends that once they’ve gotten hitched, everything about them is different. From their attire (haha) to the topic of discussion… almost like they have turn to entirely different person! Unbelievable.

I agree with Mooiness. I rather be single than to be a relationship that doesn’t work. And yes, one day I do want to get married but until then, enjoy singlehood (and whine about previous r/ships hehehe). Not everyone can be as lucky as you to find your perfect one, hor hor hor?

]]> By: sourrain http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/comment-page-1/#comment-1080 sourrain Thu, 15 Feb 2007 08:36:16 +0000 http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/#comment-1080 what pissed me off the most was the fact that there are many people like her, who thinks that they can look down on everyone else because they are so smug in their twosomes and it gives the coupled a bad name. flagging religion is just so wrong.I can't stand it when people use religion to back their closeminded points - its like honor killings in some muslim countries.It is unacceptable. Grrr... and stop playing ur computer games la.hahahaah! what pissed me off the most was the fact that there are many people like her, who thinks that they can look down on everyone else because they are so smug in their twosomes and it gives the coupled a bad name.

flagging religion is just so wrong.I can’t stand it when people use religion to back their closeminded points – its like honor killings in some muslim countries.It is unacceptable.

Grrr…

and stop playing ur computer games la.hahahaah!

]]> By: mooiness http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/comment-page-1/#comment-1078 mooiness Thu, 15 Feb 2007 07:21:20 +0000 http://www.sourrain.com/2007/02/14/anti-valentine-posting/#comment-1078 Ho ho ho. I can see why she'd piss off some of her regular readers. Singles are self-delusional and pathetic? Woohoo. Figures that she is also a Christian. Yes it is definitely ok to choose to be single. I rather be single than be in a hypocritical relationship where both parties aren't happy but stay in it out of obligation or worse - religion. At the same time, I can understand and share in the joys of a happy couple with or without children (I'm sure that's another topic for the Christians to argue about), so long as they don't look down on me. Not that I'd care because I won't be their friend anymore if they did. There's one thing that maybe I'm desperate for, and it's not marriage. And it is something that's causing me to risk losing my eyesight or causing God to kill a kitten over. :D Ho ho ho. I can see why she’d piss off some of her regular readers. Singles are self-delusional and pathetic? Woohoo. Figures that she is also a Christian.

Yes it is definitely ok to choose to be single. I rather be single than be in a hypocritical relationship where both parties aren’t happy but stay in it out of obligation or worse – religion.

At the same time, I can understand and share in the joys of a happy couple with or without children (I’m sure that’s another topic for the Christians to argue about), so long as they don’t look down on me. Not that I’d care because I won’t be their friend anymore if they did.

There’s one thing that maybe I’m desperate for, and it’s not marriage. And it is something that’s causing me to risk losing my eyesight or causing God to kill a kitten over. :D

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